100% agree. With my last boyfriend, we were using pull out method from the first time we had sex throughout our whole relationship. That one time we had to put a condom on was awful. It felt so rough even with the lube. I just can’t stand the feeling of it at all. Eventually, I went on birth control for health reasons, but I am not going to hide, it made me much happier to know there’s no need to pull out anymore.

Still, I wouldn’t trust someone I am not in a close relationship with to not use a condom even though I am on a pill. Pull out and the pill are off the table for casual sex.

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