Hi there, if you read my article more carefully, you'd see that I don't compare vibrators and sex in general. As I mentioned in the article, sex and affection is nice when you're with someone long enough to know and enjoy each other. Here I'm talking about being single too long yet still not seeking settling down. Dating scene becomes rather dull as well as the casual sex and one night stands where you often times regret it yet couldn't control it before it happened. As for the dicks, I am just calling things their names. I love men and have nothing against them. But when men and women seek one-night stands and casual sex it often is about our genitals. You want some dick, not a guy to have affection with, nothing wrong about it. As for the age, I don't think it's appropriate to decide whether or not someone is too young or too old for something. We are all different and all go through different things at different times. I might go back to the way think used to be but it doesn't mean I don't feel burned out from my experience at this point.