I used to have a roommate with a very loud girlfriend. They would have sex all the time — in the morning, during the day, in the middle of the night. And she would scream so bad, neither my headphones or Amazon Alexa’s nature sounds would help. My quite sex positive friends who’d come over and hear that were always shocked and a little bit disgusted. It really sounded like cheap porn rather than any kind of pleasure. I’m down for any expression in bed, but God those few months she lived with him turned my life into hell