Okay your comment doesn’t make any sense and I’m not playing a victim. I know what I like in bed and I knew what I need in bed long enough before I started applying it while masturbating. I always communicate my needs and know what I like and need to come yet many men still don’t want to hear it or care about their pleasure. Still, I don’t blame them and never tell them anything. I enjoy the connection and the fun we have and then finish by myself if I need it. How am I playing a victim and what’s the point of your comment here?